The nearest parking spot. It always looked so appealing, so tempting. But then again, it also always was clearly marked with the Handicapped Only sign, along with all of the nearby alluring spots. Not that I ever put much thought into that. It just meant we couldnt park there.
But one day, all of that changed. There, while looking through my car window into the oppressive August heat, I experienced an epiphany.
It was a sweltering afternoon when my mother left us kids in the car, right next to those desirable, full closest parking spots. Bored, I stared out of the window into the blazing white outside. I noticed two women approaching a gold-coloured van parked in the front. A tall white-haired woman pushed a crippled young lady in her wheelchair, lugged a baby carrier, and gripped several grocery bags. Despite the short distance, the exhausted elderly woman stopped for a moment between her car and the sidewalk. She had the first parking spot, I thought to myself with a twinge of jealousy. Why would she ever stop?
Feeling odd, I moved forward towards the window to see what had caused her to stop. I watched as the elderly woman opened the car door and made way for a ramp which rolled out of the car to accommodate the crippled young lady in the wheelchair. Whilst the young lady slowly maneuvered herself into the car, the older woman quickly seated the infant in a car seat. To my amazement, the older woman then seated herself in an adjacent passenger seat while the crippled young woman fit her wheelchair in front of the wheel and slowly began reversing the car out of the parking spot.
I slumped back in my seat in humility. For so long I had thoughtlessly begrudged those troubled people the convenience of a mere few steps
And then it struck me. I did indeed have this unfortunate habit of being jealous of those who actually deserved my pity. However, wasnt it worse that I envied the short-lived comfort of the spiritually-crippled far more often?
That sting my heart felt when seeing a girl in a fluttery summer dress (haraam, the sign in my head simpered) while I walked in somber colors. That time I bit my lip when I realized everyone else was passing with flying marks by cheating (haraam, the sign taunted) while I was failing miserably due to my honesty. That set face when I hurried past a music classroom where the choir practiced (haraam, the sign jeered). That day when I would have given anything to go to that concert (haraam, the sign-in-my-head yawned) but went home instead. That night when nothing but the perfect makeup (haraam, the sign smirked) on a certain acquaintances face kept me from sleeping peacefully. That moment when my fist clenched tightly because someone pointedly mentioned how much fun the party (haraam, the sign mocked) had been the day before.
Foolish me. I had been reading the handicapped signs in my head wrong. Disabled Morality one read. Disabled Modesty, another said. Disabled Conscience, claimed a third. The fourth the scariest proclaimed Disabled Submission. Submission to God. A Conscience. Morality. Modesty. The lack of these is what I had been envying. And what I should have pitied. For a few days pleasure, I looked with green eyes at the eternally bereft, the crippled, and the disabled. They were so near the destinations they so ardently sought. Yet, they were so far. Far from what the true destination ought to have been. The destination that I am and will always be willing to walk the distance for, InshaAllah.
Never again did I wish for the first parking spot.
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